DISCUSS ANYTHING & EVERYTHING: Money, Dating, Health, Internet, Legal, Jobs, People, Places and more

Date: Aug 10, 2013

how can improve our self..???

Date: Aug 13, 2013

Yeah,,, first you should pray and surrender to God. Because God know everything about you so He can help you (that's what i believe). Second you study hard and don't give up. as the proverb said: Ora Et Labora means Pray and Exert. biggrin

greenshield · Senior Member

Life is about learning lessons. Each person has different lessons to learn. To improve oneself you should day dream and imagine what you would like to see for yourself. If you can dream it you can have, do and be it.

A famous race car drive named Alan Kulwicki from Nascar in America said to his crew of volunteers the following, "We are not about winning". We are about what are we becoming". Alan and his crew went on to win the championship, unsponsored. He could not even afford to pay his crew. But they won because they understood that it was a matter of "becoming".

As you dream thing about what you want to become. Visualize yourself becoming what you want. Write down exactly what you want to become and how you will achieve this. Think of nothing else.

G

Date: Aug 15, 2013

i will suggest you be punctual in every sort of task which u perform. Second, you must persistent in your aim, to achieve your goals you must manage yourself according to time, circumstances, and difficulties you find toward your goal. lastly divided your time into your social life, and professional life.

take care

Ex-huyton · Senior Member

I don't see why God (an imaginary being after all!) has to come into this.

My advice is to read voraciously and not be limited by just the material specified by your teacher; i.e. read widely so that you get a rounded education. Be aware that we humans have no limit to our ability to absorb information.

VIMAL HEGDE · Newbie

To improve yourself don't keep any limits in your life and if you do then try to push it hard in every ways u can. Remember you can do every thing and any thing you believe in.

As Ex- Huyton Said i totally agree with the last line "Be aware that we humans have no limit to our ability." The ability can be any thing just believe in yourself and try to push yourself as much as u can and want.

Many a times u will feel like giving up or people around you lose hope but don't listen to them just believe and know that its you who have the control over your life and own fears.

Bless you.

Ratnesh · Member

Its so good that you realized the importance of self improvement are looking for ways to develop yourself. Below is the list of few suggestions you must adopt in your life in order to fulfill your aim in life and live contently:-

1. Leave your ego, do not take false pride in something you do not possess.

2. Be confident in whatever you do. Be it right or wrong, it is only the self confidence that determines the success in your life.

3. Do not regret past:- It is important to live in present. Do not regret what you did in past as that moment is never going to return, its universal truth. All you posses is this present moment in which you are living.

4. Do not Procrastinate:- Do your task as you planned. Never skip your work as you would only be increasing your future load. Doing things at time requires planning and constant effort not to pend any work.

5. Stop daydreaming:- Having dreams for future is okay but daydreaming every now and then about the same thing is mere wastage of time. Be confident about your goal and start acting.

6. Never set Limit:- There is no limit in this universe, It ends at infinity. Same should be case with you. Never set limits to anything. You can get unlimited results with your serious efforts.
I hope, it will help

Ex-huyton · Senior Member

Just to make it clear. My last line was referring to the fact that we don't need to feel that we have a capacity limit and need to stop taking information in. We should always remain receptive to information and never give in to the feeling that our brains are 'full up'. Have a rest by all means, but then get back to it and continue learning.