at times when we grow up..start working..getting married an having our own families..isnt it the best time for us to give back our parents the love and caring they ve given us.why are we in most cases opting to put them up in olderY care centers than staying with them..are we doing so coz they are now useless as we ve now they ve helped us archived every thing in life.. if they care for us when we were young why cant we do the same for them..am not talking about 5 parents..am talking about you mother and father who have raised both you and your sisters regardless of how many you were in number?? TELL THE WORLD WHY YOU VE PUT YOUR PARENTS IN THAT PLACE TELL THE WORLD WHY YOUR MOTHER HAVE PUT YOUR GRANDPARENTS IN THAT PLACE..AND WHAT WAS UR OPINION
What if a personality clash between the old person/people and your spouse would be likely to occur? It could bring trouble to your otherwise tranquil marriage (compared with the U.S., British homes tend to be small). By definition, we ourselves would be at an age when we would often be poor physical specimens for all the lifting, etc., that might be needed.
If the old person is significantly incapacitated then a nursing home is indicated in any case.