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How to Avoid Predators
1Don't fall for their charm. Predators can be very nice, friendly people, especially to children. If someone is continually trying to get you alone, or to isolate you from your friends or family, there is something wrong there. These people often make light or make "games" of inappropriate touching:
Touching a young girl around the breast area or any child around the crotch. They might then laugh or giggle, saying, "Oops! Did I get you?" If it's innocent, that would be the end of it. If it's more sinister, then it would happen again, probably very quickly, and could be something like: "Oops - did it again! Did I get you there?" accompanied by a touch in a sensitive place. He or she may even brazenly ask if you "liked that." Your Red Alert should be going off by then, but sometimes you tell yourself, "Oh, it was an accident," or "He's just playing a game." He's not - at least not any game you should be playing.
The predator might pat you on the butt first, and then if you laughed or said it was okay after they said they were sorry, they might either pat you again, or try stroking your butt, or even putting their hand there and leaving it until you push it away - and the next thing you know, there's a hand in your crotch, or trying to make its way down your pants or up your blouse.
A predator may even be quite brazen. One case had a young girl sitting on the bench seat of a pickup truck between her father (driving) and her father's friend (in the passenger seat). The friend slung his arm around the girl, and though it seemed friendly, he was fitting his hand in between her arm and her breast. He never made an overt move, but she felt his fingers feeling around there on the side of her breast for long minutes. She never made a sound or alerted her dad, who was sitting right next to her. She believed that her dad would get mad at his friend and it would be her fault.
Repeat: A predator counts on you to keep your mouth shut. When this girl told her dad about it years later, her dad confessed that he felt something was wrong, but couldn't put his finger on it - and would have stopped the car, put the so-called friend out on the road, and driven straight to the police station to file a report against him. Again, continued attempts to touch you, hold you on his or her lap, or to try and get you away from others should trigger your concern. By the way: this predator continued molesting his adopted daughter for many years and was not discovered until he had molested several other girls as well.
2Observe their actions, be aware of their movements. If this person appears to constantly be following/stalking you, it should be reported. It's a very short step from stalking to escalating to other, more negative behaviors, such as a ***ual attack or even an attempt to kill you.
3Be prepared if he gets any of your contact or personal information, to change it. Examples: Change your email address, change your number, etc. If he finds something more serious such as your address, then be sure to keep windows shut/latched, and doors locked. Turn off lights and close blinds/curtains at night. If you remain nervous, consider moving - no forwarding address. Give the address only to your trusted friends and family, and make sure they know they are NOT to share it without your express permission because you are attempting to evade someone who has been stalking you.
4Confront or avoid him/her altogether. If you continue to feel suspicious or uneasy, but the behavior does not escalate, and you can find no proof to bear out your concerns, talk to this person if you feel brave. Tell him or her, "You know, you have this thing you do that makes me feel kind of creepy. What's that about?" There may be a reasonable explanation. If the explanation sets you easier about it, perhaps it will help settle the matter. If you are not interested in explanations, take steps to actively avoid running into this person in the future.
5TELL SOMEONE OF YOUR CONCERNS - do not wait, just tell a friend or some person you trust. If something should happen, that friend will know where to start looking for answers.
Learn self-defense. This might come in handy in any case, but certainly, you will be glad if this person makes a frightening move on you.
Always keep an emergency number or alternative on speed dial (cell phone and home phone). This way if you're caught alone with them and they attempt something dangerous, you can always call.
Predators are often charming and friendly - at first. They are likable and make things sound reasonable when they are really wrong. They succeed by talking young people who don't recognize them as predators into doing things, or letting things be done. If your alarms are going off, stop, make them stop, or better yet - run away. Don't feel you owe that person any explanations - just leave. And TELL.