I see a lot of desperation where men and women talk about "looking for __________". The real issue is about Romance. There is a difference between dating and having a wonderful life. If you really want to have a lovely relationship you might want to focus more on romance than needing someone like a farmer needs a horse to pull his wagon.
Tell us about your romantic ambitions. Tell us your romantic dreams and hopes. What is your most romantic song? Post it here so we can listen to it. Here is one of my favorites and it reminds me of how I found my wife:
Don't tell us about how much you want or need somebody.
Why would anyone want to spend his or her time with a desperate person? Love is about sharing. It is not about pain and whining about how lonely you are and how empty your life is.